SnuggleBub at 10 months – new photos by Robert

At the time of taking the newborn photos of SnuggleBub, Robert mentioned that he’s always to happy to come back for little photo shoots over the course of her first year. Originally I had intended to just get the newborn photos, but this idea sat quietly in my mind. It was lovely having some beautiful photos of SnuggleBub, but even more so, it was so nice to have good photos of me with her. R does ensure that he takes my camera and gets photos of me with Monsieur and SnuggleBub, but life gets busy and months can slip away between the opportunities for this to happen. I really liked the idea of getting professional photos of myself with SnuggleBub at regular intervals over the course of her first year.

When SnuggleBub was around three months old, Robert came and photographed her and I. When she was around 6 months old, he came and photographed the whole family again. In February, when she was around 10 months old, he came and photographed her with Natasha (our wonderful nanny) and I. I love the photos so much.

A few weeks after receiving them, I was going through some recent photos that I had taken of SnuggleBub and I was even more grateful to Robert for his images. So many of my photos of her are blurred. Clearly I am doing something wrong at the moment; or maybe it’s just that low-light photography just doesn’t work with super active, fast babies!

Below are my favourites from the most recent shoot.

(All photos by Robert Wagner Photography, More of Robert’s photos can be viewed at





Tough Mudder –

One of the many comforting signs

On Saturday R took part in the Tough Mudder Melbourne event. A 20 km course with 22 obstacles to overcome, many of which require team effort and a lot of prayers of “Please don’t drop them” from the sidelines.

This ramp was high. Seriously high.

He was in a team with his brother, nephew, work colleague and a couple of his nephew’s friends. He has been training for the event all year, building up his running stamina and strength.

So shiny and clean at the start!

I hadn’t thought too much about the event until the night before, when reading through the waiver that I had to sign as a spectator. The waiver had some scary sounding clauses such as not being responsible for inadequate medical care, and a listing of some hideous-sounding injuries that could result from watching or participating. I suddenly had images of R injuring himself and being affected for the rest of his life. Let’s face it, we’re not getting any younger and at the moment life is so hectic with two Littles that we don’t ever spend the time on self-care, recovery or rehabilitation that we should. I was very relieved to see two ambulances on site when we arrived.


I was also a bit nervous as to how I would go, walking around the course with Monsieur and SnuggleBub in tow.

Loving the day out!

There were warnings on the website that the terrain would not be pram-friendly but you can never tell if they mean that it will be too rough and difficult even for an all-terrain pram, or if they just mean flimsy, designed-just-for-foothpaths prams. I can carry SnuggleBub in my carrier, however when I have to carry everything else as well, I have a limit of 1.5-2 hours before my back protests too much. The team were expecting to take about 3.5 hours to complete the course.

Sneaky foot trying to get some sun

I went with the option of putting the pram in the boot, going in with just the carrier and planning to go back to get the pram should the ground be okay. And that is exactly what happened. I did miss a number of the obstacles because it was a round trip of about 45 minutes for me to leave the course, return to the car, feed SnuggleBub and get back to whichever obstacle they were up to. I was wishing that I’d just brought the pram in to start with (I hated missing some of the obstacles) but it is far more awkward to be stuck dragging a pram around in an environment where it really shouldn’t be. Fortunately Monsieur was able to stay with his Aunty and cousins while I was doing that, so he didn’t miss out on seeing too many obstacles.

Giving the pram a good test – it passed with flying colours

Some of the obstacles looked hard and some of them looked downright scary. The last two obstacles I found the hardest to watch. One was a big curved wall, similar to a skate ramp, which participants had to run up and leap to grab the hands of other participants who were at the top and get hauled up over the lip of the ramp. Sometimes these people would end up with the arms and legs being held, their heads hanging upside down and all you could think is how bad it would be if someone got dropped. No one did (that I saw), but it was heart-in-throat watching. R made two attempts and both times I was so worried that he’d seriously hurt himself when he fell back down. I breather the biggest sigh of relief when he and one other team member elected to walk around that obstacle.

The spectators did not have to cover nearly the amount of ground that the participants did

One thing I really like about Tough Mudder is that the emphasis is on supporting each other and helping each other through the obstacles. If you don’t want to do a particular obstacle, there are walk-by paths provided and if you need to walk some of the course, that’s fine too. R did note that there is definitely less enthusiasm from people to help guys like him and his brother who are tall and very solid whereas smaller people who were clearly lightweight generally had no trouble at all getting the help they needed. This is where it was great that R and his brother were doing it together as they are similar builds and both are strong enough to not be too worried about whether they would hurt themselves trying to help each other up.

Nearly half way there

See below for more photos!


The final obstacle was Electroshock Therapy. Basically they had to run through an area with live wires hanging down, trying to avoid getting zapped or tripping over hay bales. I have no photos but I did take the following video. R got zapped in the head and said that he couldn’t remember ending up on the ground. This obstacle is just for first-timers. Once you’ve done a Tough Mudder, you can do the alternative obstacle at the end. I am very glad that I’ll never have to watch that again. Oh yes…again. R has signed up to do it again next year!











Neighbourhood walks

SnuggleBub was a bit out of sorts today so we went out walking. The change of scenery worked its magic, sending her to sleep quite quickly, leaving me to roam the streets of the neighbourhood, taking photos of houses or aspects of houses that I find intriguing and/or pleasing to my eye. 

I have loved looking at houses since I was little. When I was 13, I would ride to a particular street just to look at the houses on it. I’m  sure that didn’t seem creepy at all! Now I love to look *and* take photos! 

This is the second time I’ve taken photos on a walk with SnuggleBub. I never got around to posting any last time because I wanted to edit and get the images perfect, or as close as possible before posting. This time I’m just going to post them straight from my phone and actually get them posted. 

While SnuggleBub slumbers, mumma can take photos!

Letterboxes of a beautiful Deco apartment building

Through the gateway in the wall, you’ll find the secret garden.

I’ve never seen the gate open before and was trying to get a photo which didn’t actually impose on the privacy of their garden. Every time I walk past this house I always imagine a most magical garden behind the wall. 

The sweetest scent

Even the roses  at this house had the most divine scent. 

This house feels like it is issuing a warm invitation to come inside, have a cuppa and relax a while.

Stately ladies up the road from a mosque

Edged in blue

I love this letter box!

Free books… I guess

Ornate shutters; detached but still guarding the window

A yellow boat… But of course

Verandahs and couches…

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